Exodus 7-8, Job 34, James 3
What God said to me – Listening very rarely gets anyone into trouble or causes hurt or harm, but speaking is another matter. It is so easy to blurt out something in anger or trying to be funny or to give an opinion and cause hurt or ill feelings. That is why I said to you to be quick to hear but slow to speak. People long for someone who will actually listen to them. Most of the time they don’t want or expect answers or solutions, they just want the caring and empathy of being heard. Sometimes the greatest gift you can give someone is to stop talking and just listen. As you listen, think and pray for wisdom, not just for you, but for them. Learn to submit your tongue to Me and let Me guide you as to what to say or not to say. You’ll find your friendships deepening and your faith growing as you trust Me for wisdom.